To Buy or To Build

 

It was only 1-1/2 years ago that I stepped into the front door of my home and said, "I will be making an offer tonight!" The realtor smiled and asked if I wanted to see the rest of the house. I knew this home was it the moment I stepped in the door. 

Much time and energy was poured into creating a home that perfectly reflects me and as I look around, I am so proud of the home I created. This has become an oasis for me and others. My Mariah who likes to have escape days in my pool, the patio, the clawfoot tub, and when she longs for peace and quiet. For my parents who swim here most, my Sofia who laughs and frolics in the pool and loves her date days with me, my girlfriends who choose to come here for our get togethers versus going out, and David's sweet granddaughter, Addison, who I continue to hear, shares this is the most beautiful house she's ever seen. According to her dad, she tells everyone! 

This life transition has been so blessed and I am so, so grateful. 

But, life is a constant transition and now the question is.... to buy or to build?

David and I have toured home after home for a couple months. Life is so busy and our downtime has been touring homes for sale, going through model homes, and searching for property. We are both pretty set on custom-building our perfect home and that vision is coming together beautifully putting our favorite parts of different model homes together. The next step is to meet with a couple different builders we are in conversations with. We know the property location that is our #1 and I am jumping up and down happy! We continue to leave all options on the table, because honestly, the longer we look and tour, the more firm we are in our desire to build. 

David just put his home on the market and received a full offer last night!!  

When I think about our life that is about to come together, I think about how it feels to slide my hand in his and to step in his arms. He is my home. I think about how warm and loving it is him stepping into my family who loves him and how warm and loving his family and friends are with me. My gosh, I adore his ex-wife and her mom and dad! All of us sitting together for his girls games, hugs, and conversations. They are wonderful people. 

When I think about our life coming together, I know he is my home within what ever walls we reside. 

Lost in the Dream of Us

 

I couldn't imagine not experiencing the four seasons. Do you know what's better than a fun, hot and sultry summer? The sunshine of September with cooler air, when windows can be kept open and although it's beginning to get dark earlier, it means slowing down some, and get ready for the trees to burst into autumn color. 

Yesterday evening we bought a bottle of wine, grabbed two glasses and went to sit down by the water. The sun was bright and warm and as it began to set, it was perfect out. I'm so glad we went. 

He is my best friend. Our journey getting to know one another has really been at a beautiful pace and there is something so peaceful falling in love with the right person. He is everything to me, yet he is more than I had hoped for. I love him, I am in love with him, and he's my best friend. 

There is something powerful when two hearts can trust one another and I trust him with everything I am and have. Holding his hand and sharing my heart in a safe place of always love and respect, I don't take that for granted. He is kind and caring, he is romantic and funny, he has a true warriors heart. Yet, he sings my love languages and always makes me feel beautiful and well loved. I love life with him and I am better with him. I was happy before him, now my cup overflows because he fills that special place in my heart where he was meant to be. 

The windows are open and the cool air is a welcome relief on a quiet September evening. 

Me, I am lost in the dream of us. 

An Odd Realization

 

As odd as it sounds to say, really because it surprised me when the realization hit, David & I have never turned on the television when we've been together for over a year!

It was never a plan, I guess it's because we are always talking, engaged in activity, or plans. So, we actually made a plan to have a low-key evening, select a movie off of Netflix, and snuggle on the couch together. It was cozy and I confess I fell asleep a couples times cuddled in his arms. 

It is such an easy form of entertainment, but a part of me loves that we are more active together. Perhaps this winter we will slow down some.