Sunday, August 31, 2014

Put-in-Bay (PIB)


Labor Day weekend and we slipped away to Put-in-Bay, the little Key West of the north.

Wildly romantic and fun-filled, we rented a golf cart and David laughed hitting every pothole in the road on my side of the cart!   

We enjoyed a pina colada sitting in our favorite over-sized seat, the exact place where I told him one year ago this weekend, “I am wildly, crazy, madly in love with you!” 



We rented mopeds and raced all over the island, had a lunch on the beautiful patio at Blu Luna.



Heinaman’s Winery, eating ice cream, touring the island, gum spitting contests, walking hand-in-hand, the piers filled with boats of all sizes up to cigarette boats and yachts, I'm capturing every moment taking photos for memory sake. 

Our day winds down and we both agreed it was perfect. 

We find ourselves on the far side of the island by the lighthouse when I saw a field of flowers I wished I had captured earlier when the sun was shining on it. David told me to take the picture anyway and we are both glad I did ...


Magical are the days when we slip away together.


  

Friday, August 29, 2014

Daily Love Notes

6 + 13 = 8300. 

Six months ago I began to capture daily love notes. Funny things we do, moments that happen, acts of love, words of affirmations and all the ways I fall in love with him daily as a memory of our life together for him to read "someday." 

6 months later, 13 pages in a Word document and 8300 words of daily love notes captured. I want him to know that every moment in our life together counts and I didn't miss a blink or a heartbeat of what he puts into us every day. 



Daily Love Notes
For
David

Every day I fall in love with you over and over and I tell you in my words, my affections, and my affirmations. I hope to hand you a book some special day that is filled with love that is date-stamped reminding you of the little things you do every single day mean more to me than anything money can buy. I love you, David Franklin, and I love our life together. I hope you are my forever because you are the one I cannot imagine my life without ...

Thursday, August 28, 2014

Rendezvous'

In the middle of a hectic work week for both of us, David texts and in grand spontaneity plans a romantic rendezvous'.

How fun it was to have the day and an already rough work week by Wednesday redeemed by both of us slipping away from work early to be together and to be pulled into his arms ... 




Sunday, August 24, 2014

Blair Witch Project

David text and asked if I wanted to go night fishing with him. Yayyy! Look at me being invited on a guy activity he usually does with his dad, friends or by himself.

I made a quick pot of coffee, because heading out at 9:00 p.m. is the start of pre-bedtime exhaustion, put on walking through the park appropriate long clothing to ward of mosquito's and was in my very best wait-till-he-sees-what-a-good-fishing-partner-I-am persona.

It's pretty dark outside.

He doesn't really know I am afraid of the dark. In all fairness, I guess we've never been put into a dark like this outdoor situation.

We pull into the park with a parking lot full of trucks with boat trailers. Good, plenty of people.

Not good walking away from everyone ...

With flashlight in hand, I follow behind him on a trail back through the woods. I do a mental quick-assessment of exactly what do I have on me for protection sake?  A cell phone is only as good as the reception that it gets and I'm not so sure I am so speedy to access it, dial for help, then try to explain where I am in this massive park.  A weapon will work better.

Flashlight in his hand, me behind him does not give me a lit path. Panic and fear creep up on me.

Dear God, he comes back into these places by himself?!  I know I sent up at least 10 serious as all heck prayers that I will need 10,000 angels surrounding us for safety, but please God, don't let me see even one angel!  I prefer the invisible realm to me, but clearly seen to others.

A quick memory check to remember if I've ever heard of bodies found back here. All the while, David is tromping fearlessly through this dark forest.

We arrived at an open area by the water. In the daylight, I'd bet it is a beautiful spot. At night ... the woods were singing in tree frogs and nuts dropping off trees.

The Coleman lamp lit, chairs set up and David remembers he forgot the bait in the truck. I'm getting punk'd, pranked and this is a funny set-up to scare me.

It wasn't.

I stayed behind at the fishing site with this incredible hatchet that I came to terms that I will use if need be. My back to the water, my eyes darted back and forth from side to side looking through the trees unsure of which side the attack was going to come from. David's flashlight disappeared into the woods.

Five hours passed ... okay, it was maybe eight minutes when David's flashlight came back into view.

Unaffected, unafraid to the point of relaxation and enjoyment on his end, this is what he loves. Fishing and night fishing.

Me, it felt like the Blair Witch Project and I don't watch scary movies for a reason!

If there are three men in my life I would select to be with if put into an unsavory condition, it would be with David, my dad or my brother.  All three are fearless and neither of them would go down without taking casualties.

Remove the dark, the woods, anxiety and fear and it was truly a beautiful evening. The water calm, fishing lights from boats graced the waters and it was a warm summer evening with no chill in the air or any nighttime aggravating bugs.

David knew I nervous but he didn't realize how unnerved I was. He laughed and said your hatchet is any good to you in your belt loop. I explain I would have looked especially crazed with a hatchet weapon in hand standing in the light of a Coleman lamp on the waters edge looking wild-eyed darting back and forth through the woods alone.

If you ever witness a scene like this while strolling on a path in the evening, it is probably just me night fishing with David as he is relaxing and doing what he loves.

(En)Rapture

To the know and bask in the rapture of love and to live in a state of being enraptured by his love.

The very same term used in meeting Christ midway in the air upon His return.

Well done and well-named, God!

RAPTURE
noun

   1. ecstatic joy or delight; joyful ecstasy.
   2. Often, raptures. an utterance or expression of ecstatic delight.
   3. the carrying of a person to another place or sphere or existence.
   4. the Rapture, theology. the experience, anticipated by Christians, of meeting Christ midway in the air upon His return to earth.


ENRAPTURE
verb

   1. to move to rapture; delight beyond measure.

 
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Sunny & 85!

Honestly, where did summer go? It is passing by so quickly in a blur of activity and fun under the sun.

My momentum is high and I am always needing one more day of sunshine. One more day of making the most of every day in all things health, fitness, sunshine and with David.

Much to my relief Brooke is loving high school and I am loving her back into routine. Adjusting to no longer having my mornings to myself, due to Mariah no longer being in school, I look at this as a weening time. The shift before David and I blend our lives together. The season of my life where my routine is beginning to shift and I welcome that.

Two months left of amazing weather ... September and October. I do love October!

Today is mostly sunny and 85 degrees.

Today is summer and my one whole day off in the week.

Plan wisely.

Thursday, August 21, 2014

Her 19th Birthday


Nostalgia fills my mind and I remember vividly the day Mariah was born. The details and the moment she was placed in my arms still takes my breath away. My gosh was she beautiful and perfect.

That was the beginning of unconditional love for me.

Fast forward 19 years later ... her 19th birthday.

I am thankful I was home, the living room staged with her birthday presents and a floral box delivery that I brought into the house for her arrival.

Curious, we both assumed it was from Jeremy.


We read the note together and our eyes locked in shock. 

Her daddy planned her 19th birthday gift before he passed away so she had something from him on her special day.

Truly a moment I will never forget. 

Her heart cried in the bittersweet moment of missing him terribly from listening to his voicemail messages she had saved until he could no longer talk early yesterday morning to relief that he made sure he was still a part of her birthday.

Well done, Eric!

We went to Gervasi Vineyard for dinner ... David, Mariah and me. Mariah and I enjoyed a lobster pasta entree and David had swordfish in a stunningly beautiful bistro restaurant.


Late last night, Mariah did what the new rage that all of America is doing, the ALS Ice Bucket Challenge in honor of her dad.

Timing perfect.

Happy 19th birthday, baby girl!

I love you,
Mommy xo